Once you learn how to be alone
& love it
You’re unstoppable.
I can’t believe I’m expected to do things.. I am full time busy being mentally ill
How to Find the Right Relationship
1. Know yourself – what you want, and do not want.
2. Have good boundaries – know what it is healthy, and what crosses that line.
3. Know your value, and require respect from others.
4. Get out there and meet a wide range of people.
5. Give people a reasonable chance.
6. Don’t put people in a box; be open to being surprised.
7. Be persistent in your search for true love.
After a relationship with another person has been discontinued, whether romantic or platonic, I find myself thinking about them; thinking about if they are stable emotionally or physically. And I always have to stop myself and say, ‘I am no longer obligated to worry’ because it is no longer my responsibility. It is almost a crossing of boundaries to concern myself, boundaries which that person set up themselves. Over time, if I keep reminding myself of the wall they have built up, I would have built my own, and eventually, considering and putting myself first would become a habit. That is my goal.
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recovering from abandonment issues part 1 (via tyky)
